unfriending

[rkold]

For those who don't know, lately my DSL has been giving my trouble and before that I was away for a bit. Between the two, I've been re-thinking my flist.

I'm unfriending quite a few of you, if you think you still want to be friended to read my few boring friend locked entries, then either comment to this post or email me to tell me that you're paying attention and why you want to still be friended to me. I am unfriending people in this round who I was at one point close to, but I feel like you have no interest in my life anymore, and that doesn't particularly make me so interested in yours either.

I've unfriended you for one of the following reasons:

We're interested in different fandoms
You never respond to my posts, and don't even respond to my comments in your LJ

There are quite a few people who just barely survived this round, but are possibly getting cut next time I go to Japan and can't check LJ once a day. I generally try to be a nice person, but people who can't ever take the time to respond to anything I say (I'm talking can't even vote in a damn poll about something they're supposedly interested in or any sort of poll at ALL) are not so interesting I want to read about their lives either.

Perhaps this sounds bitchy, but it's hot and its humid, and my mother decided to call me before 9:00 a.m. on my day off, and someone else pissed me off a lot.

Comments

[setra.livejournal.com]

Oh... it's no excuse, I know, but I actually shopped for /very/ few of my RL friends, and both of them because they approached me. I guess I always assume that you'll be going to Japan again soon and so don't need help getting things. You would have been more than welcome to comment or email me about anything you needed though... I haven't been on aim as much lately simply because Yahoo lets us message in Japanese so we switched.
The reason I offered on TeniMyu was that everything they asked for I would easily recognize or was going to be looking for anyway. I know so little about dollfie things that I might not have been worth anything to you, but I would still have been happy to try. (I mean, you braved hEAVEN to get that single for me! Which I /am/ extremely greatful for. (it took us an hour of wandering to find it, even once we got a map... I see why you were hesitant. -.-))
Anyway, I guess that's mostly a lot of excuses. I'm sorry for not offering directly. It would have been the considerate thing to do and I appologize.

[rkold.livejournal.com]

It is no excuse, Maya, since you didn't ask any of your RL friends to trapise around Japan to buy you something over Christmas. I had no idea where the store was, it was not something I would have normally recognized but I went for you. And the point isn't getting me something, it's having the consideration to ASK, particularly after I went out of my way to go to a store for you. Heck, you didn't even write to me to say "I'm going to Japan, could you please give me some hints on finding hEAVEN." It made me feel really underappreciated.