I'm so sorry to hear that. At least it sounds like your husband got to see her last week, and I'm sure knowing that lots of people were thinking about her did make her feel loved. <3
I'm sorry to hear that she passed.. I hope all is well for you and your husband~
Even though she may not have been the "best" in-law for you, isn't it interesting how we tend not to think of the bad things at moments like this? Life is so interesting like that.
*hugs* My condolences to you, your husband and his family.
Sorry I'm just responding now. My Mac laptop decided to be 'sick' for 2 days & the Apple guy didn't resurrect it (no one still knows what went wrong) until late yesterday evening.
She wasn't always the sort of person I would want as a relative but she was still family and it did help normally that she lived far away. I admit, the longer we were married the easier I found it to just smile and be light and happiness with her since our visits were for a limite time period.
It meant a lot to me though that she did ask my husband about me and if I could have I would have gone out to see her before she passed.
I'm glad I did get to go to the funeral since I also wanted to be there to support my in-laws.
I think she was semi comfortable and she definitely had most of her family with her and I think she would have been happy with her funeral. She had really wanted her grandkids to perform at it and the home had gotten a new organ and piano since the funeral for her 3rd husband in '06.
*hugs* thank you, it's Ok between when I posted this and now I've either not been on line or trying to get things together for the funeral and for my upcoming trip.
I hate when my laptop gives me trouble, I need a new battery for mine since the current one is awful and loses power way too fast.
secretly I want a new Mac and might get one in the Spring or Summer
So sorry to hear this.
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Date: 2009-03-03 06:41 pm (UTC)My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
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Date: 2009-03-03 08:00 pm (UTC)Even though she may not have been the "best" in-law for you, isn't it interesting how we tend not to think of the bad things at moments like this? Life is so interesting like that.
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Date: 2009-03-05 10:04 pm (UTC)Sorry I'm just responding now. My Mac laptop decided to be 'sick' for 2 days & the Apple guy didn't resurrect it (no one still knows what went wrong) until late yesterday evening.
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Date: 2009-03-08 05:27 pm (UTC)I think it meant a lot to him and to his family.
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Date: 2009-03-08 05:28 pm (UTC)I think it did help and hopefully she is happy where ever she is now.
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Date: 2009-03-08 05:30 pm (UTC)It's been a hard few weeks and thankfully she was alert and together until the very end.
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Date: 2009-03-08 05:30 pm (UTC)Thanks, I'm glad I have so many people there for me too.
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Date: 2009-03-08 05:31 pm (UTC)I think we were actually out in UT for the some of the same period since I was there Thurs night until Sat morning and it was cold!
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Date: 2009-03-08 05:35 pm (UTC)It meant a lot to me though that she did ask my husband about me and if I could have I would have gone out to see her before she passed.
I'm glad I did get to go to the funeral since I also wanted to be there to support my in-laws.
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Date: 2009-03-08 05:37 pm (UTC)Hopefully she is now at peace and at least I know she lived a long and good life.
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Date: 2009-03-08 05:38 pm (UTC)Thanks, I mean it. It's all just a little overwhelming right now, but at least she lived a long good life.
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Date: 2009-03-08 05:39 pm (UTC)up until 12 hours before she went she was pretty mentally there and she got to see a lot of her family and talked to her brother on the phone.
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Date: 2009-03-08 06:04 pm (UTC)I hate when my laptop gives me trouble, I need a new battery for mine since the current one is awful and loses power way too fast.
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